Who to blame? The husband or the wife? Man laments wife's infidelity.

As the popular Yoruba proverb goes, " if the person be lied to is not aware of the lie, the person lying knows he/she is lying."

This was the case of a man whose twitter ID is "ABODE" and his wife whose name was not revealed.

According to ABODE who claimed to be a pastor now, he and his wife have three children all of whom do not belong to him but the wife is not aware that he is aware they are no his.

ABODE claims he had a fatal car accident with his friends 5 years before he married his wife, during which he confirm he won't be able to have children ago, but he never disclosed this to his wife.

However, 14 years later they have three children all of whom he knows are not his, having secretly carried out DNA tests of all the children.

While the man pretends not be aware, the woman pretends all is well as she continues to bear him illegitimate children.

The man now seems to be dying in silence as he is frustrated and now seeks the advice of netizens who he believed he could confide in.

However, while some people blame the man for keeping his problem a secret from his wife who is likely to bear the brunt for their childlessness, others blame the woman for having affair outside wedlock especially as they both possibly preach to others against such act.

What's your take on this? Is the woman right to have taken such step or the man to have hidden his problem from his wife?

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